2012 in 12 Lessons
Wow. It’s been an incredible year; definitely one of the most challenging, eye-opening, educational, and amazing of my life. To end it, I decided to share 12 of the most important lessons I learned in 2012: #12 Face Hubris: One of the most difficult parts of this year has been becoming present to the detrimental parts of my identity. Not until I was in an environment in which no one was interested in your impressive résumé, number of degrees, or even that you had attended college (let alone which school,) did I realize how much my perception of self-worth relied on the affirmation from others. The music industry was this environment and it was the first time in my life that I wasn’t immediately supported and adored. I never realized how important being impressive was to me until I wasn’t. Being stripped of the very parts of me that brought (and bought) me the greatest pride forced me to reevaluate my motives for hard work and my intentions when doing my “best”. Once I let go of the ne...